I have big hands, but I grip high. I only have one 1911 that I haven't disabled the grip safety that I shoot fine. My 2011's are the same. I have tuned them before to work but in match competitions I don't take any chances.I'm guessing you have smaller hands. A good gunsmith can tune the 1911 grip safety, both the weight to release it and how much travel is required. I do my own, what i have learned in the last 25 years. Big Tim has a SS Colt Government model 45 acp I accurized and tweaked, I presented it to him as a gift. I believe you know Big Tim.