I hope to God I never walk in on something like that with my daughter, how did he get away without at least an ass whooping. As far as the dad leaving his 14 y.o. daughter with a 23 year old, we don't know all the facts, what if this 23 y.o. was a friends kid that grew up with the family you would reasonably think your little girl is amongst friends, not a predator but I'm guessing he thought something was fishy by going back unannounced.