Serious question, first the backstory.
A while back (about a year or so) someone local's son was diagnosed with a disease (think cancer type). Never heard their name before, don't know the family, but we have a lot of mutual friends. My wife kind of knew them in passing. There were several fund raisers and such, which we help/ participated in/ donated to. After the largest fund raiser, some of the wives decided to hire a housekeeper to clean the family's home weekly and asked my wife to join in the split cost. She agreed and told me. I thought nothing of it, figuring it was for a few months. That was spring of this year. I have met the family maybe twice at mutual friends' homes, Probably wouldn't recognize each other if passing on the street.
My question is, does it make me an ******* to want to ask how long this is going to keep going?
I don't have a problem affording the $500/ year, but have recently cut down on some recurring bills of my own to divert money to more long term goals.
What say bayoushooter?
A while back (about a year or so) someone local's son was diagnosed with a disease (think cancer type). Never heard their name before, don't know the family, but we have a lot of mutual friends. My wife kind of knew them in passing. There were several fund raisers and such, which we help/ participated in/ donated to. After the largest fund raiser, some of the wives decided to hire a housekeeper to clean the family's home weekly and asked my wife to join in the split cost. She agreed and told me. I thought nothing of it, figuring it was for a few months. That was spring of this year. I have met the family maybe twice at mutual friends' homes, Probably wouldn't recognize each other if passing on the street.
My question is, does it make me an ******* to want to ask how long this is going to keep going?
I don't have a problem affording the $500/ year, but have recently cut down on some recurring bills of my own to divert money to more long term goals.
What say bayoushooter?