Walther P22 is a good one. Interchangeable backstraps would probably help out a bit so it can be used by bigger hands as well as smaller. I had one for a very short time and loved it. Only got rid of it to fund a carry piece.
Damn, Chad...I M teh sloness.
atrocious trigger, even with workSig Mosquito has caught my eye as well
Keep in mind that an 11 year old girl is about to (or already is) hitting an amazing growth spurt. My 13yr old has grown almost a foot in the last 2 years. So, if you buy a gun that is going to fit her now be sure its going to fit her hands as an adult.
I'd stick to the Ruger or Buckmark myself. IIRC the newer buckmarks come in 2 different frame sizes (udx?) now. I prefer the buckmark over the others. Taking down and reassembling a ruger is a challenge is one reason. The other is the control similarity between the buckmark and other full sized pistols, especially the mag release. Why train her to reload differently?
I cant wait till I have this problem!!