I would suggest finding a range that offers handgun rentals and find something you both like. Handguns are very personal and what works for some might not work for others. Other than that, I would definitely suggest 9mm as is relatively inexpensive to train with and is easy to find.
Lightly used with a low round count. Wilson Combat thin grips installed. Asking $500 but willing to consider offers - not really looking for trades.
Included:
2 - 15 round factory magazines
2 - 17 round factory magazines
Original Beretta Grips
Kydex Holster
Wilson Combat Short Reach Trigger -...
I was in the same boat about 6 years ago - the only one I know of is Aklys Defense in Baton Rouge. That said, I really didn't have a good experience dealing with them. It took them a year and a half to finish the job. The work was good but the service not so much.
Selling a 14.5 upper with a Colt Socom Barrel w/ FSB, BCM upper receiver, and pinned BCM extended flash hider. . It also has a Troy Drop-In Quad Rail and Magpul MOE Flip-Up Rear Sight installed. This upper has a pretty low round count and was on a spare build that didn't see much range time...
For me the Mossberg 590 with 18.5 inch barrel, magpul stock with 1 spacer, and bead sight works - it patterns S&B #4 buck pretty good within 20 yards so I keep that handy. Very fun!
Whatever you go with, make sure the ammo you choose patterns well within the distances within your home.
Lightly used Ruger American Predator in 308 with 18 inch barrel. It has the Magpul Hunter Stock in OD Green Installed. Also has a Ruger Short Flash Suppressor Installed. Bolt and trigger are stock. Asking $600.
Included:
AICS Magazines - 5 rnds x 3, 10 rnds x 1
150 grain 308 Ammo x 78...
Selling a Steiner P4Xi 1-4X24 scope with the throw lever. This scope works perfectly and is in excellent condition - with a few scraps here and there, especially on the battery cap. Has a 30mm tube and p3tr crosshair reticle.
Also throwing in Vortex Defender flip-caps (E-10 and 0-24)