I really don't know why everyone told me I should get a revolver when my boyfriend bought me my first handgun. I'm 5'6" / 110 and I also struggle with a revolver trigger.
I ended up get a PX4 Storm which has the interchangable backstrap, so I've put the smallest one on and it works well. Also, its 17+1 so I'm never worried about having to reload. (This is also AWESOME when I'm practicing at the range.) It's definitely too big to carry around regularly, but I generally keep it in the house and sometimes in the car and it's worked well for me.
My birthday gift this month was a Springfield EMP 9mm, which is a small 1911, but pricey, so I guess that depends on how much you like your girlfriend.
I ended up get a PX4 Storm which has the interchangable backstrap, so I've put the smallest one on and it works well. Also, its 17+1 so I'm never worried about having to reload. (This is also AWESOME when I'm practicing at the range.) It's definitely too big to carry around regularly, but I generally keep it in the house and sometimes in the car and it's worked well for me.
My birthday gift this month was a Springfield EMP 9mm, which is a small 1911, but pricey, so I guess that depends on how much you like your girlfriend.