On Marriage and Cheating...

[Vermiform]

id rather a woman with 15, than 5. the 5 may wonder what she missed. just my life experience

That's kinda why I never understood the whole Jihad 72 virgins reward thing. After the 4th or 5th virgin, your gonna want a pro. Your gonna get tired of missionary and want your taint licked or something.

 

[Leonidas]

it's alluring to some to find a partner that's never had sex...mostly for moral or religious reasons...some also say you can't miss what you never had...if you marry a woman who has had 15 partners before you she might be a lil harder to please vs. a woman who has only been with you...and thus she might be more inclined to step out...I think that's the general theory...

Are you Muslim?

 

[Ironman26]

There's a bunch of F'd up people in the world....It's evident that some of you have absolutely no faith in life, some of them are right here in this thread !!! Why put your private life out there like this ? Are you guys really this bored ? LMAO, get a life..... Like it or hate it, Just My Humble Opinion !!

 

[mcinfantry]

That's kinda why I never understood the whole Jihad 72 virgins reward thing. After the 4th or 5th virgin, your gonna want a pro. Your gonna get tired of missionary and want your taint licked or something.

LMAO

you mean you can have sex where you can SEE the other person?

 

[JWG223]

There's a bunch of F'd up people in the world....It's evident that some of you have absolutely no faith in life, some of them are right here in this thread !!! Why put your private life out there like this ? Are you guys really this bored ? LMAO, get a life..... Like it or hate it, Just My Humble Opinion !!

But...are they who you view this way wrong, or do they have experience to back their opinion(s)?

 

[Vermiform]

LMAO

you mean you can have sex where you can SEE the other person?

Leaving the lights on is a good first step. We tried really spicing things up by trying someone else's advice in this thread. We tried the Dress up and wear a wig thing but it didn't go very well. I couldn't concentrate because the wig was itchy and kept falling off my head.

 

[Cat]

Leaving the lights on is a good first step. We tried really spicing things up by trying someone else's advice in this thread. We tried the Dress up and wear a wig thing but it didn't go very well. I couldn't concentrate because the wig was itchy and kept falling off my head.

Well sheesh! Next time use the spatula. Do I have to draw a diagram here?

 

[Cat]

That's kinda why I never understood the whole Jihad 72 virgins reward thing. After the 4th or 5th virgin, your gonna want a pro. Your gonna get tired of missionary and want your taint licked or something.

I'm at a loss for words.

 

[Leonidas]

I'm more curious. Does it specify anywhere that the virgins are of the other gender, or the same species?

Those are important issues to resolve, don't you think?

 

[Cat]

it's alluring to some to find a partner that's never had sex...mostly for moral or religious reasons...some also say you can't miss what you never had...if you marry a woman who has had 15 partners before you she might be a lil harder to please vs. a woman who has only been with you...and thus she might be more inclined to step out...I think that's the general theory...

Not necessarily.

Women are wired a bit different. They want romance, love and to be fawned over. 15 partners is about believing everybody without making danged sure it's real. I know someone who falls very quick, very hard. But while she's with them, she's over the moon.

Those kind of women aren't stepping out because they're not satisfied in the bedroom. They're looking for attention, flattery and charm. Quickly made bad choices (moving in within a month etc) lead to quick realization that he isn't quite right. And off they go looking for #16.

Sex is sex. Great sex consistently happens only with the right person. It's love. It's nonverbal communication. It's knowing exactly to the micro-inch where to touch. You only get that with experience with the same person over years. Anything else is like decaffeinated light roasted blonde coffee after a lifetime of espresso. Sometimes it hits the spot but it doesn't stand up to the real thing.

Doesn't matter if she's had 0, 2 or 20.

 

[SpeedRacer]

Not necessarily.

Women are wired a bit different. They want romance, love and to be fawned over. 15 partners is about believing everybody without making danged sure it's real. I know someone who falls very quick, very hard. But while she's with them, she's over the moon.

Those kind of women aren't stepping out because they're not satisfied in the bedroom. They're looking for attention, flattery and charm. Quickly made bad choices (moving in within a month etc) lead to quick realization that he isn't quite right. And off they go looking for #16.

Sex is sex. Great sex consistently happens only with the right person. It's love. It's nonverbal communication. It's knowing exactly to the micro-inch where to touch. You only get that with experience with the same person over years. Anything else is like decaffeinated light roasted blonde coffee after a lifetime of espresso. Sometimes it hits the spot but it doesn't stand up to the real thing.

Doesn't matter if she's had 0, 2 or 20.

I agree. People step out to fill a need that's not being met, whether it's physical or emotional. We've all heard the cheating/divorce stories...how many start with "Well, my husband/wife made me feel special and appreciated every day and our sex life was great. But..."

None.

My wife and I have a simple rule. If one of
us feels the need to **** someone so bad that we'd sacrifice the family for it, at least have the respect to say so and we'll start the paperwork. It's the betrayal that's the bigger issue. It's also a great temptation killer, when you eliminate the "I might get away with it" aspect by having a relationship based on trust and honesty.

 

[GunRelated]

Not necessarily.

Sex is sex. Great sex consistently happens only with the right person. It's love. It's nonverbal communication. It's knowing exactly to the micro-inch where to touch. You only get that with experience with the same person over years. Anything else is like decaffeinated light roasted blonde coffee after a lifetime of espresso. Sometimes it hits the spot but it doesn't stand up to the real thing.

Doesn't matter if she's had 0, 2 or 20.

I think you are pretty close, but there are exceptions like anything else. Sex with just any man may be 'ok'. Sex with a man that knows what he's doing, partner or not, can be just as good as any 'espresso' you've ever had.


ETA - Well, I just read that back to myself and I'm not so sure it came out right. I'll be waiting for the gay jokes to rain in.

 

[D-DAY]

There's a bunch of F'd up people in the world....It's evident that some of you have absolutely no faith in life, some of them are right here in this thread !!! Why put your private life out there like this ? Are you guys really this bored ? LMAO, get a life..... Like it or hate it, Just My Humble Opinion !!

For some, monogamy just gets a little boring over time. I get that. Some need more excitement and unfortunately seek it outside their marriage without possibly exploring all their options within their marriage. For example, my cousins first wife was quite a special woman. When she realized the spark in the marriage was fading, instead of looking elsewhere for what she needed, she instead changed tactics. She would call my cousin at work claiming to be another woman and told him what the plans were for the evening. She would rotate between a handful of characters often. He said each one talked a little different, acted different, liked and did different things in the bedroom. It even went as far as him requesting dates with certain characters on the weekend or special events.

I was in my early 20's when he told me about this and I was just in awe! My first question to him; "was she schizophrenic?" He laughed and said "no, she is just acting!" Regardless, I was still impressed.

 

[JWG223]

For some, monogamy just gets a little boring over time. I get that. Some need more excitement and unfortunately seek it outside their marriage without possibly exploring all their options within their marriage. For example, my cousins first wife was quite a special woman. When she realized the spark in the marriage was fading, instead of looking elsewhere for what she needed, she instead changed tactics. She would call my cousin at work claiming to be another woman and told him what the plans were for the evening. She would rotate between a handful of characters often. He said each one talked a little different, acted different, liked and did different things in the bedroom. It even went as far as him requesting dates with certain characters on the weekend or special events.

I was in my early 20's when he told me about this and I was just in awe! My first question to him; "was she schizophrenic?" He laughed and said "no, she is just acting!" Regardless, I was still impressed.

Too many people have zero imagination.

 

[madwabbit]

For some, monogamy just gets a little boring over time. I get that. Some need more excitement and unfortunately seek it outside their marriage without possibly exploring all their options within their marriage. For example, my cousins first wife was quite a special woman. When she realized the spark in the marriage was fading, instead of looking elsewhere for what she needed, she instead changed tactics. She would call my cousin at work claiming to be another woman and told him what the plans were for the evening. She would rotate between a handful of characters often. He said each one talked a little different, acted different, liked and did different things in the bedroom. It even went as far as him requesting dates with certain characters on the weekend or special events.

I was in my early 20's when he told me about this and I was just in awe! My first question to him; "was she schizophrenic?" He laughed and said "no, she is just acting!" Regardless, I was still impressed.

hes banging sandra bullock or what? kind of impressive imo

 

[Vanilla Gorilla]

When I go down and I'm due my just reward I want to be greeted by wenches. Virgins? Ain't nobody got time for that...

 

[madwabbit]

When I go down and I'm due my just reward I want to be greeted by wenches. Virgins? Ain't nobody got time for that...

lol 72 virgins? give me a few strippers that know what the hell they are doing.

 

[Cat]

Are we comparing virgins to strippers?


I'm getting popcorn.

 

[I_FLY_LOW]

72 virgins, eh?

 

[olivs260]

Crazy rules out every single broad south of I-10

Nah man, just most of the hot ones.