Nolacopusmc
*Banned*
Am I the only one on here that wouldn't wait for LE if it was thought that a BG was inside my friend's house and his wife was inside? Who cares if she was "in the bathroom" or another assumed safe place? I couldn't live with myself if she died because I waited outside for the cops.
Obviously you are not....please refer to post #1.
Also, there is a difference between thinking a bad guy is in the house, and checking your house when you are pretty sure know one is there and then posting what a ninja you are. Not sure about this one just yet.
If it was my wife, yeah, my mom, yeah, my fiends wife? He may have to go in on his own. Seriously think about the ramification of your actions from more than just an internet chat level.
I totally understand what you are saying about if she dies, but what if...
1. She is in there with a lover
2. She arms herself and charges you out of fear or stupidity
3. You have negligent discharge because you are stressed and trip, fall, shoot at a shadow, etc.....and yes, it happens.
4. Shoot the bad guy and save the day, thus incurring the jail-time, lawsuits, and personal stress that comes with that situation while your friend and his wife live happily ever after. Are you really ready to put YOUR FAMILY through the repercussions of that while you are in prison or out of work because you were fired due to the media attention or "inability to do your job to standards" because of the stress?
I have a very simple rule I teach in my class when it comes to jumping into these types of situations as a "third party", meaning the force or violence is not happening to your or your immediate family......
"If I would die for you, I would kill for you"
If you would literally step in front of a bullet or go to prison for that person, and thus put your family through all the emotional, financial, and physiological stress that comes with that, then do it. Otherwise, get to safety by any legal means necessary, and call 911. Unless you live in the sticks, the police will be there in a relative small amount of time.
Obviously if someone is inside being raped or killed, that is a completely different scenario, but your typical bump in the night, which is what we have in the OP....call 911. Furthermore, as the "wife" in the OP demonstrated, a better understanding and "plan" of what to do, like get out the house, in these types of situations goes a long way into not making the situations worse.
Each scenario of course is a separate incident and your actions must be based on all known factors at that time, but as a GENERAL rule, you do not go looking for the bad guy.
ETA to Schnugee....
1. Were the gun and wife in same house?
2. If the wife were not in the house, would you have went in and still "swept" the house? Honestly?
Thanks
Last edited: