<SNIP> She does not have any problems with guns in general. She has even been to the range with me (a great shot) and most all the men in her family are into guns (some much more than me). She knows that I carry when I am not with her and has never said anything about it.
<SNIP> When I try to talk to her about it she generally blows it off. When I have gotten her to talk about it she asks me dumb questions like "so if some does _____ you are just going to shoot them?" I always just put off the argument with the hopes that she would eventually become comfortable with the idea and I would be able to talk sensibly to her about it.
<SNIP>-Reese
Sometimes you just have to tell them to " get over it " . Seriously . What is she going to do , divorce you ? Get mad ? Big deal , life goes on . I'm not trying to be a hardass , but logic and reason is usually lost on a woman , as they tend to run on emotion .
Well... If you have a sex life with your lovely new bride, you can't CC without her discovering it in very short order. I hug my husband hourly when we're together. I also can pick out based on his clothes obviously.
This would be very very bad. Trust becomes an issue.
Ask her to partner with you to make sure that it is adequately concealed when you carry, thoroughly secured when it is not on your person, and that she knows how to use and access it too.
Should be prepared to spend some cash for this one.
My wife was comfortable with this one;
Easy access too.
Having your home-defense gun behind lock & key is not an option. This is a great safe.
However even better is a Gun Rack w/ Shotgun. I know wives are not into GUN RACKS, they don't see our sense of fashion , but gun racks can be hung high enough away from jr.'s hands, and offer mom an even easier access to the defense weapon of choice for the home. Not to mention the accuracy of a shotgun/BuckShot within 21 ft